The main cause stems simply from jealousy and competition. However other factors can influence it as well including:
- Evolving needs - kids have changing needs as they grow up. Toddlers are very protective of their toys and belongings. School age kids often have a strong concept of fairness and equality. Teenagers are developing a sense of independence and individuality.
- Individual Temperaments - One child might be laid back while the other strict.
- Special needs - kids may act up if there is a sick/disabled kid because he is getting more attention or maybe out of fear for his brother.
"I against my brother; my brother and I against my cousin; I, my brother and my cousin against the stranger."
Kyla Boyse, University of Michigan says:
"Each child in a family competes to define who they are as individuals and want to show that they are separate from their siblings."
Sources:
Kidshealth - http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/emotions/feelings/sibling_rivalry.html
Wikipedia - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sibling_rivalry
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